How are you?

People keep asking me, “How are you?” I never know how to answer. Not because I don’t know how I am… Because I don’t know how much of the truth people actually want. I think they’re hoping I’ll smile and say, “Good.” “I’m cancer free.” […]

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Two Things Can Be True

Lately, I’ve been reminded of a quiet, uncomfortable, and strangely freeing truth: Two things can be true at the same time. Breast cancer has a way of stripping life down to its rawest emotions. It doesn’t ask for neat, tidy feelings. It doesn’t allow for […]

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The Weight of the Bell

Most of us have seen the videos… In movies. On social media. In reels that make us tear up before we even know the person’s name. Someone stands in a hospital hallway, surrounded by nurses and strangers and applause. A bell hangs proudly on the […]

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Coming Back Without Certainty

I’ve been thinking a lot about what a “New Year” post is supposed to sound like. Fresh start. New goals. Big energy. Bold declarations. But as this year begins, I’m still very much in the middle of something hard. 2025 was not gentle with me. […]

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When You Can’t See What You Need

There’s something that keeps circling in my mind lately… something that feels both obvious and impossible at the same time: how hard it is to see what you need when you’re in the middle of something really, really hard. A few years ago, I wrote […]

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